Here’s short video on how a good reference can go bad, and what to do if that happens…
I recently spoke with writer, Michele Vrouvas, about job interviews. We discussed insider tips and secrets, things that HR people look for in candidates and some of the ‘unwritten rules’. Our chat became the foundation of this article for Study.com, a site that provides high level learningtools for students and teachers~
Abner J. Mikva, notable Chicagoan, is credited with telling the following story about his introduction into politics:
“On the way home from law school one night in 1948, I stopped by the ward headquarters in the ward where I lived. There was a street-front, and the name Timothy O’Sullivan, Ward Committeeman, was painted on the front window. I walked in and I said, “I’d like to volunteer to work for [Adlai] Stevenson and [Paul] Douglas.” This quintessential Chicago ward committeeman took the cigar out of his mouth and glared at me and said, “Who sent you?” I said, “Nobody sent me.” He put the cigar back in his mouth and he said, “We don’t want nobody that nobody sent.” This was the beginning of my political career in Chicago.”
Often job hunting feels like politics. Doors won’t open unless you know the right people. Employers are looking for people who are the “right fit” for their organization, as well as have the right credentials and skills. It’s not uncommon that in some companies, coworkers spend more time with each other than their own families, so employers have good reason to consider how a new employee will fit in. When a potential employee is referred by a current employee, there is a presumption that “birds of a feather flock together.” And, on a more practical note, recruiting costs are much lower for a new employee hired through referral over one hired through traditional recruiting methods.
So, how do you overcome the “We don’t want nobody that nobody sent” mentality? First, don’t overcome it…work with it. Set a goal to meet two or three new people every week through traditional and non-traditional ways. Put your ego on hold for a while and be willing to ask for help. Understand that 99 out of 100 people enjoy helping other people. It makes them happy to do a good deed. Also understand that 99 out of 100 people cannot hire you. So, you’re not asking for a job at this point, you’re asking for information, advice, resources and support: ask if they can share job leads, refer you to career experts and recruiters, ask for a second pair of eyes to review your resume, ask for introductions to influential people and for any pearls of wisdom that would help keep your job search moving forward.
The first move is yours. The best way to let people help you is to make it easy on them. Be clear in your messaging. Don’t say, “I can do anything,” when someone asks what type of job you’re seeking. Succinctly explain the skills and experience you have, what type of work you are looking for, and specific employers (or types of employers) where you want to work. (If you’re having trouble with this messaging, make an appointment with me. We can quickly come up with a great elevator pitch crafted specifically for you.)
Assuming your intro message or elevator pitch is ready for prime time, here’s how to make it work for you:
- Let everyone know on Facebook that you are job hunting with an upbeat post based on your elevator speech. (I get it. You want FB to be happy and friendly. You don’t want all of your FB friends to know your ‘private’ business. Get over it, because cat videos are NOT more important than your livelihood. Everyone you know on FB has their own network. The only way to tap into that network by asking your way into it.)
- Conduct Informational Interviews with people who already work in your desired industry, and at companies on your ‘hit list’. Read my February 4, 2015 blog entry to learn more on informational interviews, The Power of Informational Interviewing Can Not Be Denied!
- Get away from the computer and meet people where they are. Fill your calendar with professional networking events and social activities that give you a chance to meet people with similar interests. Here are a few ideas: professional association meetings, volunteer work, fundraising events, job search clubs, Meetup.com events, recreational learning activities, park district classes, non-credit courses through your local community college, sporting lessons, self-awareness/improvement seminars, foreign language instruction, afternoons spent with your 4-legged best friend at a dog park, etc.
Becoming the somebody that somebody sent will work for you as it did for Abner J. Mikva, who enjoyed a career as a Chicago politician, a judge, a federal judge and a U.S. representative. (In 2014, President Obama awarded Mikva the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the country’s highest civilian honor.)
And as your career evolves, you can pay it back by becoming the somebody who in turn helps the new pack of ‘emerging’ somebodies.
The first time I appeared on the WGN Morning News, I was asked to talk about new careers that most people do not know exist. Here is a summary of the new careers.
Sustainability Expert – Consults with companies to integrate sustainable practices into all parts of their business.
Chief Listening Officer – Analyzes social media posting all over the web to determine what people are talking about and how their employer should design promotions around what their current and future customers want.
Healthcare Liaison – Partnered with a patient by the hospital, or hired by a family, to make sure that healthcare, or eldercare, is optimized for the patient. Families also hire a Healthcare Liaison to make sure their family member is happy, safe, and secure in their assisted living center or in their home.
Talent Management Coordinator – Works for companies in employee retention, mediating between employees and supervisors to make sure employees are performing fulfilling work and do not want to leave the company.
Natural or Green Funeral Planner/Director – Use special training, materials, and procedures to assure that all portions of the funeral process are environmentally friendly.
If you have contacted the ResuMAYDAY office in the past two years, there’s a good chance that you’ve spoken to my lovely assistant, Sz’Moyne. Her favorite part of the job is talking with job seekers and helping them solve their problems whenever and however she can. And it’s with that positive attitude that she approached me with a few ideas to share with our clients about their summer job searches. So without further ado, I’d like to introduce a new segment to the ResuMAYDAY blog: From the Desk of Sz’Moyne Arnwine…
3 Summer Job Search Tips:
Now that summer is here, most job seekers will think that it’s a good idea to place their search on hold until the fall. While it’s true that some companies don’t extend offers until the fall, keep in mind that they interview before the offers…in summer. Here are three reasons not to believe that myth that it’s a waste of time to launch a job search in the summer:
1. Going to a pool party or summer event? You never know when you will run into a hiring manager or an industry professional at a picnic or other summer event. Make sure you have perfected your elevator speech, and drop a few business cards in your beach bag. If you find yourself with some summer free time, spend a few minutes making sure your LinkedIn profile is updated with your current career goal, all the right keywords and a good-looking profile picture. Summer is also a great time to conduct informational interviews with others who also have down time. Remember to think strategically, and act opportunistically.
2. Sometimes no news is good news. We have all been there before. You apply to a position but you don’t hear anything back right away so you assume that you aren’t qualified. Guess what? All bets are off when summer schedules take over. With summer in full swing, HR may be working with a reduced staff or the decision maker may be out of the office. Expect that it’s going to take a little longer to hear from someone. Be patient and don’t assume the worst.
3. Set small, obtainable goals that work with your schedule. Yes, it’s summer. You’ve earned some downtime, so go for it! Just be sure that you are setting aside time to fit in a few job search activities. Set a schedule of days and times that you can commit to your search. If you don’t do this, a week off can quickly turn into a month. Before you know it, the entire season can be behind you, with no job search progress to show for it. Small, obtainable goals will help keep you on track.
In conclusion, be proactive and take advantage of the season. Summer downtime and parties provide great opportunities to network and add momentum to your search. Be prepared! You never know what’s around the corner!
Sz’Moyne Arnwine is the Client Relations Manager at ResuMAYDAY. She loves learning about job search and business strategies, and generously shares them with the ResuMAYDAY community.